fix(ume): forward stats by rule_key, rule toggle, and list filters

Aggregate push counts per monitor rule, add enabled PATCH and paginated filtered list API/UI so keyword rules show correct stats without deleting.

Co-authored-by: Cursor <cursoragent@cursor.com>

netx_api/oclaw_alarm_forwarder.py

@@ -153,6 +153,7 @@ def _run_loop() -> None:
                             action=str(payload.get("action") or ""),
                             ok=ok,
                             error=err,
+                            rule_key=str(payload.get("rule_key") or ""),
                         )
                     except Exception as rec_exc:
                         _log.warning("forward result record failed: %s", str(rec_exc)[:120])